Different Communication...

6:02 PM by Cortnee Ingram
I do find myself communicating differently with people from different groups and cultures. It is easier to talk to people at work about work things because their frame of reference is the same as mine. Whereas when I go to church I have different things in common with the people there, so I communicate differently with them. I also tend to use a lot more slang when talking to my friends and family, especially because we have been around each other for so long it seems like we have our own language at times. 

Three strategies that I could use to communicate more effectively with the people  mentioned above would be to use the Platinum Rule, to listen, and to use a fresh perspective. The Platinum Rule is to do unto others as they would want to be treated. This means to put their wishes ahead of my own. I would also try to listen and truly hear what people are saying, especially in my work environment  I think with family and friends, when the need arises, I would try to hear them from a fresh perspective. I would try not to assume how the conversation is going based on how it went before. 

Thanks,
Cortnee :)
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Assumptions in Communication...

8:41 PM by Cortnee Ingram
I watched a show on Nickelodeon. While watching the show with the volume off I  kept thinking everyone was upset or frustrated. There were some moments where I could tell they were happy but it wasn't until I watched it again with the volume on that I realized they were really excited and happy when I thought they were upset or frustrated. I was surprised at how differently I interpreted their feelings with the volume off. 

Thanks,
Cortnee :)
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The Communicator...

7:42 PM by Cortnee Ingram
When I think of a competent communicator I think of the Pastor of my church. The behavior that my Pastor exhibits that makes him effective is the approach he uses. My Pastor uses a very informal approach to his preaching style. He is open about himself and his home life, helping the audience to see that he is vulnerable and real. He also uses a lot of props when he is preaching. He tries to engage his audience with relate-able items and stories from his life that people can relate to. In this way he is able to connect with the audience and therefore relay his message in a real and understanding way. 

I would definitely model my own communication behaviors after my Pastor because they are very effective at getting the point across. They are also important in how he connects and that is something I feel is very important when communicating with someone. Being able to relate to another person on a personal level will always bring common ground between both parties and help unite them in at least one way. 

Thank you,
Cortnee :)
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